To answer, or not to answer? That is the question...
SO.....I'm in the car driving to what promises to be a nice iftaar with some cool folks and food when my cell phone rings. I felt it vibrating in my purse by my feet, but at that moment, I was too lazy to even look and see who was calling, so I left it alone. I arrive at the iftaar and made my rounds: a kiss kiss here, hug hug there, said a few "Hey, haven't seen you in a while"s, smile for the camera here, smile for the camera there, hug a kid here, kiss a kid there, said a few "Wow, he's/she's gotten so big"s, a Ramadan Mubarak to the left, a Ramadan Mubarak to the right...the rounds are complete, so time to relax and eat (hey, that rhymed). So, I'm sitting laughing and eating with friends when a little birdie reminded me that I missed a call. I dig in my purse for my cell, click it open and see that not only have I've missed Muneera's call AGAIN, I see a name I haven't seen there for at least five months...wow...had to sit all the way back in the seat and pause with the question flashing in my mind: Call back or no? Hmmmm...needed advice on this one. I asked two close friends who were in tune with the situation whether or not I should call back...one decided on rock, paper, scissors for the answer, which resulted in I shouldn't...the other friend told me that I shouldn't and explained why, and her reasons were extremely valid. So, I decided not to call...but the question kept eating at me: why is this person calling me, ESPECIALLY during the month of Ramadan?? So, I called back hoping to get the voicemail, but he answered...To be continued...
posted by Madeehah @ 5:37 AM
6 Comments:
I know who it is. Dont call back. That person is only trying to get to you, to start the pattern of DEPENDENCY ALL over again! You are done with that, you've moved on!!!
Seriously. Im glad you decided not to call back. YOU go girl.
Unfortunately, Sara, I did call...I swear I have a problem!
HEY!! WHat Happened?? Talk about a cliffhanger :(
ARRRRGGGG!!!! Nooooo....sigh
Oh well. My prayer for you is that Allah brings into your life people who are so much better for you, who do so much more for you, that in a while you completely forget 'Phone caller' was ever even in contact with you. Friends who dont care about you and your feelings, who are in a relationship with you only for themselves, arent real friends at all.
ANEESAH MADEEHAH_______-I'm going to leave your las name outta this for privacy matters. However, now I know why your butt hasn't called me back because you knew that I was going to bomb you out over the phone! Aneesah- do you wish to turn into the women that you talk about??? Cut that person short!!! Something must be going on in their life and they want to lean on you after not being a friend to you. You are not going to move on and find someone else until you purge this particular people from your heart. I love you-dearly, please do not continue conversing with this person and Please call me and fill me in on the conversation. LOL. Miss you much! :(
PLEASE TELL her, mommamu!!! LOL
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